The Young Ladies Journal of 1872 reported on the significance of each charming gesture: Fan fast: I am independent. Fan slow: I am engaged. Fan with right hand in front of face: Come on. Fan with left hand in front of face: Leave me. Fan open and shut: Kiss me. Fan open wide: Love Fan half open: Friendship Fan shut: Hate Fan swinging: Will you see me home? Twirling in right hand: I am watching you. Drawn slowly across the cheek: I love you. Resting fan on right cheek: Yes. Placing the fan behind your head: Don't forget me. Touching the fan against your left ear: Go away
Another source:
Carrying in the left hand, open: Come and talk to me.
Carrying in the right hand, in front of the face: Follow me.
Carrying in the left hand, in front of the face: Desirous for acquaintance.
Carrying the hands under the open fan: Forgive me, I pray you.
Cover the left ear with the open fan: Do not betray our secret.
Drawing through the hand: I hate you.
Drawing across the cheek: I love you.
Drawing across the eyes: I am sorry.
Drawing across the forehead: You have changed.
Dropping the fan: We will be friends.
To fan slowly. : I am married.
Fanning quickly: I am engaged.
Gazing pensively at the shut fan: Why do you misunderstand me?
Letting it rest on the right cheek: Yes.
Letting it rest on the left cheek: No.
Placing behind the head: Do not forget me.
With the little finger extended: Goodbye.
Open and shut: You are cruel.
Open wide: Wait for me.
Placing it on the left ear: I wish to get rid of you.
Presented shut: Do you love me?
Presenting a number of sticks, fan apart, opened: At what hour?
Shut fully opened fan very slowly: I promise to marry you.
Shut fan held to the heart: You have won my love.
Shut fan resting on the right eye: When may I be allowed to see you.
Threaten with the shut fan: Do not be so imprudent.
Touching the unfolded fan in the act of waving: I long always to be near you
Touching tip with finger: I wish to speak to you.
Twirling in the left hand: I love another.
With handle to lips: Kiss me.
History of the Fan
Back in 1325 B.C.E., when King Tut ruled Egypt, minions would keep the air around the young pharaoh cool and insect-free with the aid of long-handled fans. Roughly 3,000 years later, fans were still being used to keep pests at bay, only this time they were held by young Victorian women, who would shoo away unworthy suitors by slowly fanning themselves. "Don't waste your time," was the explicit, ego-deflating message.
"As Sir Richard Steele, in the "Tatler" of 4 August 1709, wrote: "You may observe in all public Assemblies the sexes seems to separate themselves and to attack each other with eye-shot, that is the time when the fan, which is the armour of woman, is of most use in her defence, for our minds are constructed by the waving of that little instrument, and our thoughts appear in composure or agitation according to the motion of it."
From the sixteenth century up to the late 1800s throughout the whole of Europe, the dress of no fashionable lady en grande tenue appears to have been complete without the addition of a fan. So prominent a part has this little "modish machine" played in intrigue, love, and scandal that it has been aptly termed "the woman's scepter." Invitations were given by it, assignations were made; a gracious furl encouraged the lover; a disdainful furl plunged him into despair. To read aright this language became a necessity in the education of all fine gallants, who must know how to understand each movement and interpret each flutter.
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A Few Antique Fans


Gorgeous quality handmade battenburg or Belgium black antique look fan
Hand tatted lace fan with silver leaf floral detail over raised enamel on mother of pearl frame and white knotted silk tassle
Other uses for fans were purely decorative, such as on the following greeting cards.
GREETING CARDS: LADIES FANS WITH FLOWERS
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